absolutely tekawitha . . a little thicker skin might be needed at times . . pretty sure we agree Grace being called a "Babe" is not one of those though  :] 
Couple thoughts re: implication that Grace is being forced into her new look
Leno : August 2007 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S667cxL1ML0  
Jammys : May 2008  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F2DCrF3xCho