i Now as to Grace  i think shes  very attractive but not just based on looks alone theres the talent , the looks , the attitude both onstage and off , and theres the personality which seems to me to be that off a sweet young lady(I met her once briefly at a signing and she was very nice and geneurous to everyone that was there as was Matt who thanked me for coming out and supporting the band at a show i went too) for example you have going back and playing  for here high school teachers retirement  , then theres the  playing and organizing irene benefit for the flood victoms as  well