Ha, the sad part about that question is really the fact that I've heard guys (seriously, only guys) make derogatory comments (at concerts and on blogs) that Grace is "big", that she has big thighs, etc...  and on the other hand, unfortunately, at all the concerts I've gone to (and i have been to a lot) there have been creepy men leering at her, constantly taking video and photographs of her, and practically salivating all over themselves as she performs onstage. 

So it's a double-edged thing - she's either too pretty/sexy, or she is not skinny/pretty enough. 

That it's even an issue is sad.