wordgirl3 . . . couple thoughts from someone who has a young granddaughter 
&gt; "<i>Grace has a responsibility, right? Or not?</i>" .. Not 
..... filtering what you feel is age appropriate for your child is called being a parent 
&gt;  "doing for women in music" - kinda get a 70s vibe from that but - being whoever you want to be - you know, like the guys do - is a positive message for  girls/women as far as I'm concerned  

Those who can pull it off have always brought the sexy to live rock 'n roll . . and there have always been those who didn't like it.  
Bottom line (sorry, can't resist):  shake or no shake - those who can't (refuse to ?) recognize the talent will go for the cheap shot anyway.  

So as KC implied and as Rick Nelson sang ...
<i>But it's all right now, I learned my lesson well.
You see, you can't please everyone, so ya gotta please yourself.</i>