[ok - just tried to post comment but something weird happened, so here goes again.]

Good for you both - stay strong 'till the end! Brian and I didn't tell anyone the name we'd picked out either. I think it made it more special to "bestow" it upon her when she arrived, and to introduce her to people with her name (I felt weird about people talking about her with her name before she was even born.) I know you two will delight in that process too!

...And, I suppose from your meager hints that the wee one's name will not be "Tonks Oswald?" ;)