Thank you for sharing this so openly and courageously. This lesson of not having to be right, to let go of what you think is right or just or whatever... it's been a very powerful thing staring me in the face lately, as I wonder about how to heal old relationships that have resurfaced in my heart.

As I enter into what I hope will be a lifelong partnership with my beloved, ghosts from long past have come up, and I find myself wanting to share my love and joy with them, and find that love has burned away the deep hurt and pain of the past. I find myself wanting to reach out and heal the rifts, and wondering if as grown adults these distances can be healed, or if it's best left alone. And there's also fear. It's a difficult path to walk, the one that teaches humility and deep release. It's not always easy to swallow.

I wish you so much joy and love.

