I know some other photographers do big presentation sessions.  I don't know if that's something you've thought about.  I really don't care for it one way or the other, but I generally have a pretty good idea of what I'm looking for going in.  The photog we used to use in SA did the big presentation with snacks and drinks and an elaborate slideshow viewing with music and all.  A real tearjerker kind of thing.  Grandma's and mothers-of-the-bride can't resist it.  I've heard that the big dawgs in Salado do a similar deal.  