You are so funny!  I am so with your blog title.  I've had my hair cut very short to having it grow mid-back - and it's all good.

Isn't it funny when people from other cultures ASSUME that you have a weave?  I remember one of my (really great) White girlfriends running her fingers through my hair saying, "Oh, I just love your weave."  I informed her that Black women could have long hair without weaves (I've never worn one) and warned her to NEVER do that to another Black woman...(unless she had a death wish) - ha!