I am so right there with you it isn't even funny.  My mom joined Weight Watchers this year and for the first time in years, she is 10 pounds thinner than me!  All I can say is start the day with a plan.  Pack snacks (which my dietician friend at www.healthyeats.com) says is the key to weight loss.  You don't have to drink of ton of water but eat foods that have water in them too (like fruits).  And if you hate the gym, try the new EA Sports Active - I just tested it out (only on day two) and it is hard but it works - Julie at Wii Mommies lost 8 lbs. in one month doing it!  I'm also a member of New York Sports, but I pretty much go there to read books.  And do stuff outdoors - rollerblading, biking, walking.  Or if you're too busy for that, leave for work a few minutes early and deliberately get off one stop before your own stop.  Makes you have to walk more without it being considered exercise.  Good luck...it's hard but once it clicks the weight falls off - or there's always the Master Cleanse :)