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If you follow me on <a href="http://web.stagram.com/n/cravenmaven/">Instagram</a> you will know that I attended the Brooklyn edition of the <a href="http://www.kinfolkmag.com/dinners/">Kinfolk dinner</a> yesterday eve. The above photo evidence being but one example of the loveliness that ensued. It was a treat, a privilege and yes, felt magical to meet many whom I had only seen or spoken with over the digital airwaves. 

Everyone was lovely and just pleased to be a part of a project that they enjoyed. But what struck me most was a statement Nathan Williams { Kinfolk Editor } made about finding quiet moments in this never quiet city.

Lately, I have been looking outside of this brash city to find peace and quiet,  air to think and opportunity to gather. In so doing I came to realise that I was looking for something that I already had in my possession. Nathan's speech reconfirmed what my introspection revealed. These moments, scenarios and  peace is something one has to CREATE regardless of where you are. Quiet can be achieved, gathering can be emotionally nourishing, conversation upbuilding and food wholesome only if you <em>make</em> it so. 

The city really does fade - it becomes a tapestry behind your window pane, but it only does it if you let it. Else it will take over. 

I am resolved to create more carefully curated moments in my life. To force the colours of this hectic locale to become a translucent backdrop to experiences and special moments. New York City I love you so, but this year, you will be tamed,
