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First dates are a necessary evil in the lives of singles. These combine the pressure of job interviews with the artificiality of plastic flowers. You are willing to do just about ANYTHING to make a good impression, the whole time you're watching every move you make your appointment with a suspicious air of a judge looking down at the defendant (a). 
With all the hopes, expectations and fears that men and women bring to the table on the first date, it's a wonder anyone makes it to the second of these meetings. To assist in the progress of l'amour au courant, here are some do's and don'ts to follow on the first date: 
Yes: 
Be yourself. Let me amend that to be your BEST self. This is not the time to admit the weaknesses and insecurities that regularly beset you, nor to share the story of how the shock of finding your fiance in bed with your brother landed you in a mental institution. It uses the tried-and-true tales that showcase your sweet and sparkling personality stories.
Listen. The purpose of this approach is twofold. Men do not like women who get all the conversation. He wants a chance to shine in your eyes telling THEIR tried-and-true stories. Plus, allowing orate gives you the opportunity to discern what you like. If it says ALL his ex-girlfriends are bitter, man-hating, imagining their side of the story. If admits to not being the marrying kind, that's valuable information to have in advance. (No, you're not gonna change it!) If you say that what gives meaning to your life is being involved in a love relationship - well, is not it good to know that information? 
Try to have fun. Your life depends on it. It's just a date. All you're really doing is hanging a couple of hours with a new acquaintance. Lighten up. 
 
no: 
Pretend to be someone you're not. If you eat meat and he's a vegetarian, keep your carnivorous habits. Likewise if you're a two-pack-a-day and it is non-smoking. The truth will come out eventually. Sooner is better than later. 
Snap judgment about your feelings toward him. Unless it's a TOTAL boor or potential nutcase, give him one or two more chances before discarding. If you hurry to judge on a first date, you have much time to regret the hasty rejection of someone who could have been the love of your life. 
You leave in uncertainty. If you would like to see it again, say "I had a great time. The time flew. "Yes, you can kiss goodnight, but do not act desperate to immediately set a second date. If the first date is enough, say "It was nice meeting you. I wish you well. "Do not dilute the message coming into kissy-kissy. 
The most important tip of all: Date safe. Do not take risks with your safety. Just because your cousin's friend's boss introduced you to this person, does not mean you should invite a virtual stranger in your house for wine and music. Besides, not rushing into intimacy gives you something to look at future appointments.