*Be Flexible Here's a crucial part of starting up to sort things. Demonstrate your Ex you are mature enough not to choose revenge for being damage. If she has things at your place just enable her know that there's no hurry to receive them out. She will be able to pick up her things in her individual time. Recall she is going to possess a minimal guilt emotion about breaking up with you and when you start demanding things then she'll know she was correct in breaking up.