Your boyfriend, in order to be taken seriously as an specialist, nevertheless feels that he has to perform field perform. His journey is just beginning. And even though he cares about you, hes equally passionate about his new career. That creates a push/pull dynamic that's not going away any time quickly. If he stops his pursuit of pickup artist mastery, he will really feel resentful of you. If he continues  even though its genuinely within the spirit of study  youll really feel resentful of him. Either way, among you is making a sizable compromise which you dont really choose to make.