She relates the problem of rage as deriving from currently being in an abusive relationship  not always physically abusive, though of course this may be the situation. And it may well not always become a particular or intimate relationship. It may be with work, societal, and even spiritual. Nevertheless it embodies a way of relating and coping with some thing or an individual, in which the girl associated feels controlled via the condition and would not believe that in her ability to improve it, or herself. It's a denial of her innate ability and selfsovereignty. A denial of the woman's innate dignity, creativity, spirituality, and complexity.