i always wondered why people who are gay made a big deal about coming out well here is your answer i myself found out it was like a new begining like the gates opened and i was free i am not sure how others felt after coming out but i felt like a huge weight had been lifted and to anyone out there who may be scared dont there is help if you need it and are ready it may be rough at first and some wont get it but they will adapt people do change it may take a little time but they will learn to love you for who you are