I will be coming to Va. Beach this week to attend the funeral of my father. I flew at the end of January to see him and found my sister had put him in an assisted living home. He wanted to come to Colorado to live with me, and voiced this to my sister, and she scared him and he changed his mind. He kept mentioning to her that everything was to be split evenly in his will. Upon arriving to visit him, he told me he made a mistake in having her handle things, but she was there and he felt he had no choice. He was very concerned about her, he said he did not trust her. She did not assure he took his medication in the assisted living home, and this concern I spoke to them about on my visit. How do I assure that my sister gives me a copy of the will and abides by his wishes? She became very angry with him when he told her he wanted to come to Colorado with me, as I also take care of his ex wife, my mother, in my home. If I make an appointment, can the fees be taken out of the estate, or do i need a retainer when I arrive. There are 2 houses involved, Certificate of deposits, money markets and 2 bank accounts. I do not know if my sister also got out a insurance policy on him. 