My mother in law is with us currently we found out she wasn't paying her bills, over taking her medicine, her short term memmory was really bad at times we believe she has the start of dementia however she flat out refuses to take the test. My husband just got Power of Attorney updated and also added to her account she owns a small house in Lynchburg ,VA but hasn't been there since the first of spring. We don't know where or what to do her Dr. is no help She wants to drive but hasn't driven byherself for a long time she is 67 We haven't been up to her house yet but from what we have heard there may be some hoarding she is very parranoid at times and thinks we are up to something. Bonnie has asked to make a will so when she is with it we try and take advantage of that. We actually live around off of Witchduck road. Bonnie has taken a toll on our family but I can't let her go in good faith that something will happen to her or she would try something. Jennifer Tomlin 