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So you really want to spice things up in the bedroom and it's time to experience something different than your tongue, finger and penis. Many times, sorry to say guys, either you aren't doing it right or your woman just has a difficult time reaching an orgasm. However, that may not be the case and things are just getting dull in the bedroom. Well this is the time to experience something new. Statistics say that experimenting in the bedroom is always successful for many couples.

Guys don't let this affect your egos. If this is your first time playing with toys in the bedroom don't be nervous but instead be curious and explore. You will of course have to make your girlfriend or wife feel comfortable too as this may be her first time experimenting with a toy or sharing this intimate moment with another person.

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Remember that each sex toy or other similar accessories come in different format and sizes. Your woman may probably already own one of the following but you should also have what she uses in your bedroom so you can both enjoy it when she comes around. The last thing you want is for her to be carrying around too many accessories, like her dildo in her pocketbook every time she comes and visits you. Therefore you should purchase pleasure enhancing toys, role playing toys, massage oils and so forth. My favorite is the bullet, which does wonders to a woman. So you may want to leave that blow up doll where you see it, not bring so much attention to yourself and instead pick up something you both will enjoy.

Now, the question is where do I buy these sex toys. Well for starters you can always look online and find thousands of these sex shops online. Or if you live near a large city or town there should be multiple sex toy and accessory shops for you to choose from. One of my favorite shops is <a href="http://www.babeland.com/" target="_blank">babeland</a> in NYC, which is a luxury sex shop, the sales people can answer any question and the store doesn't look sleazy.

Since online shopping has increased throughout the years many couples prefer shopping online for sex toys, as it does tend to limit the embarrassment. However, you need to be careful with who you shop with. Make sure to consider doing business with a company that is discrete. The reason is that you don't want your package to arrive with a phrase like “Dildos R Us,” plastered around the box. Also, make sure they bill your credit card discretely so the whole world doesn't know your business.

So don't be fearful, get up your ass and try something different and exciting. Visit a sex shop on the weekend and so what if it's your first time. A lot of couples use sex toys as a way to bring fun and excitement into the bedroom. Spice up your sex life and browse the internet together. This alone may help to get you in the mood. Let us know what you end up getting and if you need instructions we may be able to help. Enjoy!