<img src="/images/old/6a00e5537d966288330133f59cf034970b-500wi.jpg" width="100" height="100" alt="Thumbnail" class="align-left thumbnail" /><a href="/images/old/6a00e5537d966288330133f59cf034970b-800wi.jpg"></a> There is an increasing body of research that tells us how to &quot;fireproof&quot; a marriage. People have long labored under false ideas about what it takes to form and then sustain a long-term, loving relationship. Some people have the idea that they must find a &quot;soul mate,&quot; one person who is destined to meet their needs. [...]