I've had lots more time to log on than I thought I would while on vacation but I've been on my unguilded alts a lot 'cuz Kray just misses his raiding. :)  I keep checking in at least though...

I started out with a bang by doing 30 dailies each day during the first week of my vacation, with Kray Carn and Xhak but got kinda' bored of that.  I have purchased epic flight training for the druid and finished the quest chain up to hSethekk to get his epic flight form - I either need to wait for guildies to help or start working on getting him geared a little better before trying that out though.  Xhakum, in the guild, has been busy as well.  He has the $ for his epic flyer/training, just needs to get to the store.

Anyway, as you can see I have been around as well so you weren't the only two.  It looks like Jyggs understood your concern and Dethe can /ginvite now as well.  I can understand your frustration; I've been there before.  I was well rewarded with friendships and fun times, not to mention some decent gear, for sticking through the slower times though so I'm still not ready to go anywhere.

I don't tend to be able to be much of a leader anyway, but with my work schedule it makes it very difficult.  I tend to be a good follower in the plans though, so if you want to take the bull by the horns and set some stuff up, work on recruiting or whatever, I'll certainly join any guild activities I possibly can.  Though Dread was an officer, it seems to me he kind of took the bull by the horns basically on his own and did a dang good job of it.  Not sure what got to him in the end which forced him to back out, but I think I have a pretty good idea.

Anyway, thanks for sharing your feelings.  I tend to keep stuff like that more to myself because I feel like I should probably step up to the plate instead of waiting for peeps to bring me food before complaining about what others are/n't doing.  But of course that's just me and my feelings about myself.