Viviann, is...........well if he does not see something happening NOW then he takes off, he usally realizes his error very soon after he has made it.  This last time he dropped 2-3 weeks before BC and was to embarassed to ask to come back.  As far as Viv not knowing anyone in the guild thats wrong.  I grew up with as well as Dreadwind, and he has met or knows 4-5 ppl in our guild in real life, he was just dumb for leaving and he knows it.