Cry for help?  roflmao!  That actually made me chuckle. :)

As far as being irritating, insulting and whiney - Well, I've just never understood the whole sports thing I suppose.  And not that I'd find any problem with the mentioned type of activity between two consenting adults, but I was actually trying to make a specific statement with that comment; it was not meant to be taken literally.  Of course, explaining that kind of takes the fun out of it though.

And though I was kind of bummed at the raid being cancelled, and with such short notice to boot, I was trying to express myself in a light and airy way, fully expecting a few jabs coming back at me.  But it was all meant to be in fun, not to irritate and insult.  Again though, explaining that kind of takes the fun out of it.