Ok I figured I would give it a few before I responded, well here goes, the short sweet verion.

I figured that I would get a lot of &quot;I did the grind so quit being a puss&quot; type remarks and I fully understand that.  Also I fully understand that when you do ask for some help in chat that not everyone is going to respond. Come on, I am not some whiny priss here begging to have someone to make it easy on me to grind.  I do hope that when the time comes that those of us that lagged behind (due to work or whatever) need the guilds help to get attuned, that we can count on the guild and not feel like a bunch of assholes for asking for help.  Maybe I came across wrong in what I wrote but it was not intended to be a &quot;hey everyone drop what your doing and help me&quot; message, that would anoy me as well.  I was just pointing out that there are a few of us that made contributions in the past that are sitting on the outside looking in now and it really sucks.  

And for the record, the reason I am lagging behind the pack is that I started a new position at work that has consumed a massive quantity of my time.  Hopefully the summer will see a slow down and I can get back to playing a little more often.  And obviously that is RL encroaching on game play which I would never think of blaming anyone for...except maybe my boss =)

I will start posting run times here if I need help with a quest chain or something and see if others are in need as well.

Another thing to note, I don't think I have asked for help outside of the occasional &quot;hey anyone want to run XXX I am sick of pugs&quot; type comments.  I have only asked for help when I need it to complete something (and not for selfish I want xyz gear as was insinuated). So the comments about begging for help I hope were not directed at me.