I too believe it is up most important to get clear expectations from a group beofre it starts, or before one joins.  for example i always make sure we are running FF before i join, cause i hate it when we are there and everyone wants to run by.  beacuse it is a group effort, adn we should all do a little for everyone in teh group.  I havn't needed anything past Ff for quite some time, but I still go to the end.  

I say this is a great exaplme of a growing issue, adn we should all learn from it, not crumble over it.  I personally would like to get ohnez back in, as I think he is a good player.  If there are no objecttions, I will reach out to him.