Hi Mesoko,

I am writing you to request that you apologize to dreadwind about acting like a brat in chat when it was announced we were going to pug aq.  I personnaly think it would go a long way in your standing with everyone if you recognized it was inappropriate to bitch outloud about the decision to pug in guild chat, and to make sarcastic statements about FSE logging on after 6:30.  

All of us would like for 20 people to be on everytime we have a raid scheduled, but it is just unrealistic.  Some times we have to turn people away, i know cause i have been one of them on more than one occasion, and other times we have to pug, as in last night, or decide not to raid at all as was the case on monday.  Many of the memebers have families and jobs that don't give them the flexability in their lives that others like yourself enjoy.  This doesn't mean that people don't want to raid, just that they can not.  We have always been a casual guild, with no attendence requirements, and that policey will not change.  Being a cusual guild means that we will not be doing end game content as fast as other guilds, plus it will be more difficult to gather the numbers for raiding many nights of the week.  I know there is a group of people who often log on after 12am pacific, as that is when they finish work, and miss many of our raids.  

Everyone wants to blow off some frustration and disappointment from time to time, but to take it out on your friends and others in the group is viewed to be childish behavior, and works counter to your goal of getting more poeple to raid.  The fact that you are younger than many of us, means that you may not have as much in common, and it may be harder for you to understand our position, as it is hard for many to remeber what it is like to be 15 and all of the BS you deal with on a dailey basis.  I am not sending you this message to lecture you, berate you, or to treat you like a child, but as simple advice as a friend to help you maintain a positive reputation in the guild.   

If you could simply send dreadwind, and udazhi (GM, recommended) a message saying that you are sorry for venting your frustration in open chat it would be great.  Eating some humble pie can go a long way, and unfortunitly it is a part of life.  Of course you do not have to do this, and nobody will make you, but i fear that if you do not, next time you rub dread and others in the guild the wrong way, it will be difficult for people to keep him from /gkick you.   FYI, many people were sending tells about you arguing with the decision to pug.  people wanted to know why, i told them to ask you.

thank you,

don (barbie)