I like the guy myself, but i too have only been able to make 1 run in the last couple weeks.  I am resigned to teh fact that soemtimes you miss out on things when real life is in the way.  I do however feal that we should allow others like myself , gnome, and him to beable to get an invite first when we are not able to run as offten.  obviously in a fair manner.  I'm not saying on every time we are on, but if we can only run 1 run in two weeks, why should someone who is avaible everytime get first priority.  cause on our limited time we too would lik eot run with the group.  I know it sounds like i am saying whenever im on i should get to go, but i am not.  I am saying we should try to maintain some sort of balance.  it like saying we all buy a case of beer, and there are four of us.  just becaucei drink slower, why should i still not get to have my 6 beers.