time cures all.  this really is not that big a deal.  sure there are guys in teh guild tha ti never invite, or would run with as a general rule, but there are others i enjoy.  I think as we get more people this is probably going to happen.  Personally I think the whole thing got blown out of proportion.  I agree with you and ohnez, and many others about the hide, but i wouldnt have taken it up with him unless there was some agreement as to what was up.  I think ohnez got scared he was going to get booted, when i dont think that was ever going to happen.  i understand the whole damned if you do damned if you dont.  i dont knw an easy remedy for this.  I simply try to do what i think is right, and leav it at that.  basically its just a game, im on to have fun.  I hope you will let this fade in time and continue to run with me adn the rest of us.