K so i respeced, and then respeced.  I was shadow for about 3 days, (took 2 days just getting on the damn server, still messed up somewhat) It was good damaging, and I was +149 dmg with 6001 mana with out AI buff.  was cutting through stuff fast, and taking on 2 ally at once was good, but i realy enjoy the healing and damage better, so respeced to a disc, holy build, and now do +248 damage, with over 6000mana, and it regenerates much faster and i heal a lot more.  I am now dropping smites for 700-900, and holy fires for  700-900, plus they crit for as high as 1400.  mind balst still in 800 ish area with 1200 crits.  But for healing im actually getting better numbers than before.  so i enjoy the healing build much better, even in BG as i survive better, keep team up better, and still drop some good bombs.