[quote:7cb5c00a35]brother in it[/quote:7cb5c00a35]
Looks like the brother is Boohbah?  I really hate to do this and feel pretty badly considering Boohbah and all, but I have recently grouped twice with Oldtacoman in udSTRAT.  He (I believe, but char is she) is very friendly and outgoing, but with regard to DPS and tanking I have already made a decision not to run with him anymore.  Perhaps with a better build, better equipment and/or more experience things might one day be different but for now if my vote counted I'd be voting no, unfortunately.