Well, hooked this computer up to the upstairs modem. So I can at least download the drivers once I figure out what it is! Bwa ha!  I don't even know what my graphics card looks like or where it's at, I had the computer guy install it. I can probably google an example of my HP model I guess. 

I tried that thing Dethe, it still showed my standard generic graphics thing that came with the comp, no idea why the new one isn't showing up. I've done a recovery before and it all went ok.