Lately I have been having this trouble with people saying I am such an animal.  The struggle is this, how should I respond, I want to be modest but I also want to appear confident for my children?  When I told one person that I was really just a poodle at heart they replied: “That must mean you are a high maintence girl with a low maintaince look.”  Was that an insult?  Oh yeah, my hair is naturally this color and wavy too- eat your heart out.