<p>Does anybody have a normal family anymore?&#0160; I&#39;m going crazy visiting my relatives.&#0160; Yes, the people that raised me and should know me better than anybody else on earth.&#0160; Why are these holiday gatherings so painful?&#0160; And why does everybody have the same complaints?</p>

<p>Could it be than seeing your family is a window into your soul?&#0160; That your family actually is a living breathing example of all the things you are deep inside.&#0160; They remind you of all the good and bad times, of all the things you thought you had outgrown.&#0160; They remind you of the You you thought you had left behind.</p>

<p>Worse, I think I am turning into my mother.&#0160; Aagh!</p>
