Forget all the nonsense floating around about specific "moves" or costumes or stripper poles. You are not a hooker (probably) -- so forget all about tacky sequined crap and painful-looking acrobatics and for the love of Love, do not let anyone stuff a dollar bill down your pants.

Forget that.

Now think about having fun. Yes, fun. This is playtime for grownups.

Stripping for your lover is very easy and very fun. Just watch Sophia and Marcelo:

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There's no need to memorize dance routines or offer up a gynecological exam. All you have to do is maintain eye contact, take your time, and lose yourself in the moment. A little music in the background helps, but you are not performing a broadway show. So keep the volume low.

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