Hi! I'm definitely talking about something different -- I wrote this in 2010 and I haven't read the Bloom article. Where is it?

However, I'm not sure how many opportunities there are to show people you've just met (male or female, young or old) that you're interested in their brains first. I think you have to get to know people a bit before digging in. People that meet my little boys for the first time usually comment on what they can see or hear at that moment, and that's fine with me. As long as the kids are behaving.