I honestly like the term "Domestic Goddess" as Nigella Lawson uses it.  Just the right amount of tongue-in-cheek.

I don't really like any of the labels associated with working, unless it's profession-specific.  Even then, I don't like the term I would probably be called ("policy manager" -- ugh.)  Don't like WOHM.  But maybe it's because I feel there's so many more dimensions to my life than just the job.

Good food for thought, thanks.
