Maybe you should take a trip down the south with your African American girlfriend (I assume your white,heterosexual,male,at least you sound like one) and you would know what I mean. I did not make in any point any comments against the shcool system. I do not "blame" anyone for my broblems, but I will say that there were a few people  that made my life hell at a certain part of my life and I was "forced" to see every day in shcool (there were also those outside the shcool in all fairnes and other things that contributed to the problems I had at the time). At this point I also should maybe mention that some of my own ancestors have been white southern slaveholders / racist, some relatives of mine still are the 2nd one, so I don't think Im totally pulling this out of a hat..      