Please tell me the name of the movie (American, circa 70s/80s, The lieutenant's Wife?) about an American lieutenant in France who meets a French girl, they fall in love, they marry, she gets pregnant, they promise to meet at a certain French cafe on a certain day at a certain time after the war, he never shows up, she uses a coat hangar to abort, she makes lots of money and spends the rest of her life anonymously ruining his life as he cannot understand how his life has become so unfortunate. 

I would like to see this movie again 