Elsker dig for evigt (2002) Open Hearts

Directed by Susanne Bier 

Starring Paprika Steen, Nikolaj Lie Kaas, Mads Mikkelsen, Sonja Richter

An extremely well acted ensemble piece, a tragic relationship drama that doesnt tip into whimsy or melodrama. A young couple is tragically split when the boyfriend, Joachim is paralysed after being hit by a car. The girlfriend, Cecilie becomes attached to one of the doctors in the hospital who is more than happy to give his time (primarily because his wife was the driver of the car that crippled the boyfriend). 

Joachim gradually becomes aware of his condition and (very true to real life) goes through every emotion possible, anger, bitterness, self pity, and he does his best to push Cecile away from him. She cannot understand or accept his reactions and slowly becomes closer to the doctor, eventually leading to them becoming lovers.

Meanwhile the doctors wife is glad that he can offer some aid to Cecilie, she carries an enormous burden of guilt since the accident and doesnt see the crisis looming although her eldest daughter has her suspicions.

Full marks for the acting, very true to life especially Nikolaj Lie Kaas as the tetraplegic Joachim. the anger taken out on those closest to you and against those treating you is honest, acceptance takes time (if it ever happens) and in the mean time people have to vent their feelings. The main nurse treating him was also excellent and again very natural. 

Paprika Steen, always a fine actress holds the fort as the guilt ridden wife trying to deal with her emotions and keep her family together, her performance again is superlative and has a genuine feeling to it. The script and direction are taut, fine work from Susanne Bier who has since directed "Brothers". 

A painful slice of life in a high quality drama, a definite recommendation.

Cheers Trev.

BBFC rated 15

R2 Pal dvd available from Icon Home Entertainment.