I saw this on cable 3-4 yrs ago. It's about an Irish girl who goes to work as a nanny for a wealthy Spanish family. They have 4-5 daughters,it takes place in the 1920's{pre-civil war}in Spain. The nanny has an affair with the handsome father/husband. I seem to remember they meet in a cemetery with a statue of an angel. He ends up leaving all of them to fight in the war.  Filmed on location,beautifully filmed,can't remember if subtitles or not. Does this ring a bell with anyone?  Thanks 