Hey Desiree! That&#039;s such an important question to ask - &quot;besides a mom&quot; because the reality is that even our kids thinking about us in that way. My three year constantly asks me, &quot;what&#039;s your name?&quot; He says, &quot;You&#039;re Tia and you&#039;re Mommy.&quot; And he&#039;s right. And I&#039;ve noticed that the most successful parent-kid relationships happens when our kids are allowed to see who we really are and love us for more than our biological role in their lives. 