Good morning Crazies.  Plan to stay home and get some things done around here.  I had bought so much little girl stuff when Annabelle came into our lives...clothes and all kinds of frilly&#039;s, plus a ton of stuff for next winter when it was on clearance last spring, I also had gone to a Disney store that was going out of business and bought a lot of stuff for her for Christmas.  Well, I haven&#039;t gone into a lot of detail other than to say that my DIL was crazy, and the Christian counselors they were seeing have confirmed that to Gregory.  They gave him a book yesterday called I Hate You, Don&#039;t Leave Me.  We had thought that Darcey was bi-polar as her mom is but her mother takes meds and Darcey will not see anyone about it, but the counselors believe it is something more serious.  They said from what they know of Darcey and what they have read in all the texts and email that she has been sending my son in the 3 weeks since she left...those messages have gotten more and more bizarre, that she will not ever seek help and her periods of &quot;craziness&quot; will just become more frequent and last longer.  They are the founders of a Christian organization thats main purpose is to save the marriage, but they are now telling him that they believe the time has come for him to walk away for the sake of himself and Scotty.  He thought things were really good between them and then she went off on a tangient on Annabelle&#039;s birthday and said she was going to spend the night with her mom and dad and she hasn&#039;t been back.  She keeps sending him texts during the middle of the night telling him that she hates him and she didn&#039;t marry him because she loved him, that she only married him because she didn&#039;t like the fact that he was seeing someone else.  Right after she left, I sent her a text message telling her that we loved her and Annabelle and she sent me one back saying she didn&#039;t care what we thought and for me to mind my own business.  She told the counselor&#039;s that I was always prying into her business and Gregory told them, in front of her that was not true...I truly don&#039;t, I have stayed completely out of their business.  She finally admitted to them that was true.  I have found that about 98% of what comes out of her mouth is not true but the counselors told Gregory that Darcey is delusional and thinks they are true.   She went off on a tirade yesterday because she said he is handling this too well...he told her that he has no choice, that all he can do is give it to God and go on, but she wants him to be falling apart.  He is hurting but he has a child to think about.  I feel so badly for Annabelle, and for the kind of life she is going to have.  All the pictures of Annabelle and Darcey have been removed from my FB acct. and from our home.  We are trying to make the transition as easy as possible for our son and grandson.  I think that Gregory getting that book and seeing what their life could be like with her in it, helped a lot.  He called me last night after they left here, and told me that he had been reading it and it was almost exactly what they had been going thru and he realized that he was not prepared to handle that nor would he allow Scotty to be around it.  It might be different if she would seek psychiatric help, but she won&#039;t - in her opinion, it is everyone else that is the problem, not her.  Okay, far too late to make a long story short, but I said all that in getting to my plans for today...I bought a bunch of large, clear plastic containers and I am packing all the little girl stuff away.  I have 3 nieces who are 2, 1 and 1 month old so I will be saving it all to give to them.  <br /><br />Rose, so glad your mom joined up here.  When Chris moved out 4 yrs ago, I was so terribly sad. All my friends told me that when I grew accustomed to it, I would love the empty nest syndrome and I said I could not imagine that.  Well, they were right.  Then he moved back home for a short time and as much as I love him and enjoy spending time with him...I was so ready for him move again so we could get back into our normal, quiet routine.  I was about ready to go find him a place myself.  Now he is a homeowner so I hope he is out of our house for good&#33;&#33;&#33;<br /><br />Jackie, tomorrow is the big day.  I will be praying that it goes well for you and it is all you hope it will be.<br /><br />Donna, as other have said, we are so happy to have you as a part of our family.  Just like babies, you become a member of the family at birth, so consider yourself family.<br /><br />Okay, guys, I need to get my butt off this contraption and get moving.  Hope all of you have a great day...