Cheryl, so sorry you have to put up with all this drama.  You would think that she shouldn&#39;t have any rights to Scotty staying at her home if it is a &quot;druggie&quot; home.  I pray everything works out well for Scotty and you guys.  I&#39;m glad that you had time to chat with Darcy and smooth things over, hopefully you can build your relationship with her.  That&#39;s great that you will be attending the wedding... their wedding sounds like ours, except that my folks had to travel 400 miles to get to the wedding and were held up, so they missed the short ceremony but arrived in time for the &quot;reception&quot; at a local restaurant.<br /><br />Kevin - our warm weather is back again thank you - although I would love to visit Colorado... hopefully one day soon.