Something odd happened today, and at first I chalked it up to miscommunication, but the more I think about it, the more it bugs me.  First I have to explain something that happened yesterday because in hindsight, it seems that they may be related..<br /><br />I have never gotten along with my ex-DIL&#39;s mother. She was always doing things to hurt me, but she is Scotty&#39;s grandmother every bit as much as I am, so I have constantly tried to be civil and to always say nice things about her in his presence. The big slap in the face came on the day my grandson was born. When I got to the hospital, I knocked on the door of the room that Leah was going to deliver in. Her mother opened the door and then said &quot;just a minute&quot; and shut it. Then she opened it again about a minute later and said &quot;they have decided that they don&#39;t want you in here for the birth&quot; and shut the door in my face. <br /><br />So, I stood in the hallway and listened to my son&#39;s child being born while she was in there. Greg was with me, and he was livid (he didn&#39;t plan to go in but knew I wanted to) so after it was over and the dr. and nurses had left the room, Greg knocked, and this time Gregory answered and his father laid into him. Turns out that she had never even told them that I was there and it had hurt Gregory that I had not come to the hospital, or so he thought. Anyway, Leah made excuses, saying that we needed to understand that her mom was jealous of all that we have and most of all, our relationship with each other. Her mom changes husbands like underwear and is always broke, she is divorced again and moves around sponging off her kids. <br /><br />To give you an idea of the kind of people we are dealing with, when her mom and her last husband decided to file bankruptcy, they went out and got every credit card they could and maxed them out because, as they said, they weren&#39;t going to have to pay them. Anyway, I get calls all the time from collection agencies, looking for my ex DIL. Because I don&#39;t want Scotty caught in the middle of anything, I always tell them that she was married to my son at one time, but they have been divorced for a couple of years and I don&#39;t know why they would have our number, but I have no contact with her. I hate it because we have squeaky clean credit - not one negative entry and it has gotten to where I hate to answer the phone because it is probably a collection call. On Friday, I got a call from some place called Allied Data Corporation. It was a recording and it said that if I did not return the call, legal action would be taken. I did not have a pen handy and by the time I found one, the recording had hung up and I did not get the number - it was not displayed on the caller ID, it just said &quot;unavailable&quot;. <br /><br />I got another call from them ysterday and I happened to be on the computer at the time, so I typed in the number as they said it. I called and they said that they were looking for Mary ********. That is my ex DIL&#39;s mother. They said that she had listed this as her phone number. I told them that I did know her but not only has she never lived here, we actually despise each other. I did not have any contact info for her but told them I would pass the info along. I sent Leah a text and told her that I have been fielding calls for her for the last 2 years and I am tired of doing that and I am certainly not going to do it for her mother. I talked to my son and he gave me her mom&#39;s cell phone number and I called the place back and gave them her number and told them to remove mine from her acct. <br /><br />Her whole family is about as worthless as they come - they keep having babies because the more kids you have, the more welfare you get. The divorce came about because she continuosly cheated and my son didn&#39;t want Scotty to come from a broken home, so he forgave her and tried to get her to attend counseling, but when she came up pregnant and they had not been sleeping together, it was time to let it go.<br /><br />Gregory called Leah about her giving out our phone number as her own and now her mom doing it.  Apparently, they had quite a row on the phone, which I think was more to do with something that happened on Saturday and so he was furious to start with.<br /><br />My son said that his fiance&#39; went over on Saturday to pick Scotty up from his mom and she said that the whole house reeked of pot and was full of smoke.  She immediately called Gregory at work, and he called Leah about it and she said that they were getting ready to move and then they will have a garage and he will start smoking out there instead of in the house. This guy has done hard time for manufacturing of meth amphetamine and my son tried to have visitation removed after they moved in togther but was told that as he had &quot;paid his debt to society&quot; and there was no proof that he had any involvement with drugs at that time, it was not a valid argument.  <br /><br />So, it is too late to make a long story short, but fast forward to today.  I pick Scotty up at school every Wed. and keep him until his dad gets off work.  Gregory has 2 days off during the week and he picks him up those 2 days, I get him one day, and a babysitter gets him one day.  On Friday only, his mom picks him up because he spends that night with her.  Today Annabelle and I went and we walked up to the front door, as I always do, and waited for him to get out of class.  Right before he came out, his Grandma Mary walked up.  She looked surprised and said &quot;oh, are you getting Scotty?&quot;.  I said yes, I always pick him up on Weds. and keep him until Gregory gets off work.  She said &quot;well, I guess I should call Leah and tell her that you are here&quot; and I said &quot;yes you probably shouuld because he is going with me&quot;.  She got on her cell phone and I heard her say something about me being there and what should she do.  I don&#39;t want to sound conceited but I know I am Scotty&#39;s favorite grandma and she knows it too.  I always tell him, when he says that, that he loves us both the same and he needs to make sure that she knows that.  He has pitched a fit before when Leah has taken him over to her mom&#39;s and started yelling &quot;this is not the grandma I wanted to go see&quot; and I do feel sorry for her when he says things like that in her presence.  Anyway, when he came out of the school, he came running over and threw his arms around me.  He just looked at her and said &quot;hi grandma&quot;. <br /><br />I imagine that they know that Gregory is going to do something about finding out that her boyfriend has drugs in the same house that his son spends 2 days a week in.  At first, I thought that maybe they just got their days mixed up, but as she only gets him on Friday, and has for the past 2 year, is that really plausible???