Keith, thank you for sharing. I lost my first husband of 24 years, 9 years ago to cancer. being a widow or widower is the club you never want to belong to... but life was good to me also finding love again with my Paul.  I am so happy i was able to start life again and I know the Steve looks down on me and is glad I am happy. Enjoy each day to the fullest. Life is too short. thatis the lesson, I &#39;ve learned.<br />
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Joey, glad the unofifcial word was good. Yep, as a technologist if you give results it is considered diagnosing and we can loose our licenses. so that is why mum is the work but the friendly wink or smile offere much comfort to patients as you in your own way without words give them the good news.<br />
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Gail