Well what an unusual trip this has been.  I found out a secret about my mother today that I never knew, and I&#39;m still reeling from the shock.  You think you know someone, and then something like this.  Perhaps the signs were there, and I never noticed them, or chose to ignore them.  But today I stumbled across unmistakable evidence about the truth, and when I confronted her, she had no choice but to confess.  The fact of the matter is that my mother<br /><br /><!--sizeo:3--><span style="font-size:12pt;line-height:100%"><!--/sizeo-->whom I&#39;ve known for nearly 45 years<!--sizec--></span><!--/sizec--><br /><br /><!--sizeo:4--><span style="font-size:14pt;line-height:100%"><!--/sizeo-->that sweet little old Texas lady<!--sizec--></span><!--/sizec--><br /><br /><!--sizeo:5--><span style="font-size:18pt;line-height:100%"><!--/sizeo-->who gave birth to me<!--sizec--></span><!--/sizec--><br /><br /><!--sizeo:6--><span style="font-size:24pt;line-height:100%"><!--/sizeo-->is actually a<!--sizec--></span><!--/sizec--><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><!--sizeo:7--><span style="font-size:36pt;line-height:100%"><!--/sizeo--><!--coloro:#FF0000--><span style="color:#FF0000"><!--/coloro-->red hatter&#33;<!--colorc--></span><!--/colorc--><!--sizec--></span><!--/sizec--><br /><br /><img src="http://s344.photobucket.com/albums/p323/kdiviness/TIA171069-772_d.jpg" border="0" class="linked-image" /><br /><br />Guess that makes me a real SORH&#33;  <img src="http://www.cruisecrazies.com/community/images/forum/tr-emoticons/biggrin.gif" style="vertical-align:middle" emoid=":biggrin:" border="0" alt="biggrin.gif" />   Any advice on how to deal with this revelation would be greatly appreciated...<br />