<!--quoteo(post=305042:date=Aug 8 2008, 12&#58;18 PM:name=terumim)--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (terumim &#064; Aug 8 2008, 12&#58;18 PM) <a href="index.php?act=findpost&amp;pid=305042">&lt;strong&gt;QUOTE BELOW&lt;/strong&gt;</div><div class='quotemain'><!--quotec-->grew up with all that .. ummmm where did all that go with bringing up kids...but the worst was <br /><br />&quot; THE LOOK &quot; my mom and dad could be across room and if i got that look OMG i was in sooooooo <br />much trouble..which was most of the time LOL LOL <br /><br />Tonia<!--QuoteEnd--></div><!--QuoteEEnd--><br /><br />All  grown up with children of their own, David &amp; Debbie still talk about &quot;THE LOOK&quot;.   David used to say he would rather I smack the heck out of him rather than give him the look.    lol  <br /><br />Today, as much as I spoil my grandkids (OK  I admit it) they get nothing without a please and thank you and they know that NO means NO so there is no sense begging and pleading.   <br /><br />Joey - sounds like you have a great master plan