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I understand what you are saying Maria... but i think that words are just that words and in fact if this generation is using it as such so be it... I keep reminding myself that  although words them self can have  many meanings and mean different things to different individuals and groups....I think its so more important to focus on what&#39;s in the heart of the communicator more so than the message they spout.... after all you don&#39;t have to be happy to be gay......But I could be wrong...