Good afternoon all.<br /><br />Having a stressful day -need to vent LOL.<br /><br />I had Mom&#39;s phone bill taken care of (or so I thought) by online withdrawel.  I just got a e bill today that she is 4 months in arrears and will be disconnected.  I called the provider and they looked through it all and had the right info and the bank had rejected it - I called the bank - they said it was not rejected as it had never been presented.  Go figure&#33;&#33;  So now we start over.<br /><br />I got another call from mental health and they will evaluate Mom again and provide her with meals on wheels and day care outings -  sorrry - that is not my Mom - she will flat out refuse. SHe does not need someone to clean her apartments - its clean already.  She doesn&#39;t need meals delivered - she won&#39;t eat them. I am getting so fed up with it all.  NO we basically have to wait until she gets sick of falls an ends up in hospital - then she can go into a safe environment.  In the meantime she wanders around outside - talking with the homeless junkies in the park - she&#39;s living on coffee and carrots - and doesn&#39;t know who I am - but she invited me to come back because she enjoyed my visit.  Oh and no toilet paper in the house - and she refuses to buy any because she lived through the war?????<br /><br />Going upstairs to have a good cry now -  It&#39;s  bad enought that I have lost my Mom - but now I have to wait until she gets hurt to look after her.  &amp;^%&#036;^&amp;**^)@<br /><br />Thanks for letting me rant&#33;