Shaunna and Falina - I can identify with you both.  My oldest Lisa lives about 2 miles from our house... but since she had &quot;words&quot; with Candice and Jose in South Africa (when they all went over there last year) she has not been in contact with Tony and I either.  I think she feels that we side with Candice - the truth is we are neutral and having nothing to do with their disputes, but in Lisa&#39;s mind if we are &quot;friends&quot; with Candice we can&#39;t be friends with her..... how obscenely juvenile - but it is what it is, we have had all kinds of problems with her over the years, I&#39;ve cried 1000&#39;s of tears and now have become numb to the situation.  The strange thing is she has written off the entire family... Tania as well who also has not done anything to her. So consequently she has not contacted either of her sisters since they have had their respective sons... so sad&#33;&#33;&#33;  I love her no matter what but I guess she has written her family off.  The WORST is our 2 grandsons, Robbie and Alessi... she has evidently also told them not to contact any family member as well.  Prayer is all that will fix this situation, I know&#33;