Sue - no need to apologize for the vent&#33;&#33;&#33; Sometimes it just makes you feel better to get it off your chest&#33; Maybe you can talk to your brother and arrange to go visit him by yourself&#33; Good thing you and your sister have a pact <img src="http://www.cruisecrazies.com/community/images/forum/tr-emoticons/thumbup.gif" style="vertical-align:middle" emoid=":thumbup:" border="0" alt="thumbup.gif" />