thanks ed...  i have been there it is the best... but someone told me they were doing some remodeling and the buffet was closed...<br /><br />Joey i only know so well your sorrow.. the anniversary of my dad it soon and then my mom&#39;s i miss them both so much... thank god they are near bye, at fort rosecrans the miltary cemetery.. so i can go visit....but i send ya big hugs during this time hun...............(((((((((((((( JOEY )))))))))))))))<br /><br />Carmen .. thanks i will mark that on my calendar ...to make sure i send good thoughts your way...<br /><br />Jackie ... how nice and yes you are spoiled by way not .. thats alot of years and to still be in love...<br /><br /> okok question  to all that have been married many years .. what do you think has kept your marriage together for the years you have been husband and wife... i am always  interested.. because now adays marriage is taken so lighty....and i being one of them.. it does scare me to think about ever marrying again..Gary and i have been together 11 yrs.. so i guess my statement doesn&#39;t make sense.. just a thought...<br /><br /><br />well off to see whats i can find for dessert i kinda got the i need something sweet... ok Gary just said i can kiss him thats sweet LOL LOL ... hes such a werido...<br /><br />Tonia<br />