thanks guys.. now comes the next phase finding the child..<br />we have been approved for foster but not adoption yet .. the DOJ report hasn&#39;t come back yet...(you know the government) these things take time..but we CAN accept a foster/adopt child... so we will begin that phase to look at the children that are available for adoption and let them meet us and see if there is one that was sent from heaven... I have already sent a email to the adoption coordinator.. with the blessing of our intake coordinator.. so when she pops into the office on Monday OUR EMAIL will be in her IN box.. amazing how no one moves as fast as we would like..LOL..We of course like any good doting parent ..will keep you posted..