DH says its like the judicial system - they are so busy leaning the wrong way so they don&#39;t make a mistake that they can&#39;t see someone needs help.<br /><br /><br />&quot;They&quot; like to see people living in their own homes and &quot;they&quot; cannot see she is unsafe.<br /><br />I also found 6 pork chops in the fridge - I froze them all so she doesn&#39;t kill herself by rancid pork :o(