<!--fonto:Tahoma--><span style="font-family:Tahoma"><!--/fonto--><!--sizeo:5--><span style="font-size:18pt;line-height:100%"><!--/sizeo--><!--coloro:#2e8b57--><span style="color:#2e8b57"><!--/coloro-->Shari - that is a problem - but guess you have to go.<br /><br />When Hugh&#39;s cousin&#39;s daughter got married (in Scotland) we were invited but it was not feasible to go.  Hugh has never even met the girl.  So we sent a rather nice check - and never even got an acknowledgment - even from the mother.<br /><br />It seems manners have &quot;gone my the wayside&quot;&#33;<br /><br /><!--colorc--></span><!--/colorc--><!--sizec--></span><!--/sizec--><!--fontc--></span><!--/fontc-->