Good Morning<br />It is sunny but cool here in IN.  Suppose to be warm tomorrow with more humidty and of course they are forcasting 30% chance of rain on Sat. for the party.  That will be my luck.<br /><br />Have been talking with my future SIL mother about his grandfather.  He has been off of the sedatation meds now for a week and his eyes are open but he is not responding to commands.  Does not sound good.  It sounds like this might be the way he will be from now on.  They are trying plan for a nursing facility but of course the family did not talk to him prior to the surgery about what if.  Now they are stuck with a locked safe and no idea of who his attorney is, or what he wanted.  I am sure that I did not tell her what she wanted to hear about how the payment system works in a nursing facility because you basically have to spend or liquidate everything they have before the government will help pay.  Not what you want to hear when you know dad has left everything (including the farm) to you.  That is why I say it is good to preplan if you are expecting your kids to keep anything that you might have.<br /><br />The house is quite quiet without any kids coming and going not sure that I am ready for that, but I will have to adjust for that is life.  Not much here today, have to work tonight.<br /><br />MaryLou - Sorry to hear that your ear is still not well.  Hope you get to feeling better.<br /><br />Ed - Glad you got everything set up for Roe&#39;s appointment.  Enjoy Sedona it sounds great.<br /><br />Andrea - It is better to pre-plan than not know what they would have wanted.  <br /><br />Steve - It was not so much as the shopping that we forgot about the car but the talking of her moving to Indy and about the wedding things that still have to be done.  It was a good thing that we left it 15 minutes from us than 50 minutes.  My FIL still will not quite harrassing us about it.<br /><br />Well off to get my day started.  Everyone have a good one.