Thank you Jackie, and I am sorry the timing of your Father&#39;s passing.  <br /><br />Thank you Falina...and thanks for the hug, I really needed it&#33;  <br /><br />I just found out something  from the family.  The oldest son that is in New York will be flying in tomorrow but maybe not his wife and children because they are in JAPAN&#33;...history:  he married a women from Japan and at this moment the wife is in Japan with the children visiting all of HER family&#33;  Talk about timing&#33;