Andrea - so sorry you are having a rough day and your Mom is having such a problem with her eyes.   <br /><br />Believe me when I say we all, at one time or another, need to blow off some steam, vent a little bit or just need a shoulder to lean on.   This is what is so wonderful about CruiseCrazies.   We are all here for each other.  So if it helps you even a little bit - vent away&#33;<br /><br /><br />(((HUGS)))