<!--quoteo(post=329839:date=Oct 29 2008, 02&#58;48 PM:name=elfed)--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (elfed &#064; Oct 29 2008, 02&#58;48 PM) <a href="index.php?act=findpost&amp;pid=329839">&lt;strong&gt;QUOTE BELOW&lt;/strong&gt;</div><div class='quotemain'><!--quotec-->This situation is upsetting for all family members. <b>But what can one do if he won&#39;t help himself by making an effort to get better?<br /></b>Regards,<br />James.<!--QuoteEnd--></div><!--QuoteEEnd--><br /><br /><br />I think you are 1000% correct the only thing you can do is love them.. and trust me when i say I know sometimes that aint easy...