Oh Falina I am so sorry to hear that you are having such a hard time.  I also send (((BIG HUGS))) your way.  Getting away together is really a two fold thing - one is to have fun but the other more important thing is to have &quot;down time&quot; where you can recharge your batteries away from the business, other wise the melt down happens.   Pleeeeez try and get away just for a night or two.... just the two of you, it&#39;s very important for your health and mental health.  OK, you can get off the psycologist&#39;s coach now  <img src="http://www.cruisecrazies.com/community/images/forum/tr-emoticons/biggrin.gif" style="vertical-align:middle" emoid=":biggrin:" border="0" alt="biggrin.gif" /> <img src="http://www.cruisecrazies.com/community/images/forum/tr-emoticons/tongue.gif" style="vertical-align:middle" emoid=":tongue:" border="0" alt="tongue.gif" />    Jokes aside - you can vent here anytime, in fact this is the only place where I know my friends will listen and understand.  We&#39;re here for you&#33;&#33;<br /><br />Deb - so glad you had a good time at the Renaissance Festival..... we enjoy it when it&#39;s in town too - lots of fun&#33;&#33;<br /><br />Cheryl - Congrats on Greg&#39;s promotion, that&#39;s wonderful.