Thanks Falina&#33;<br /><br />I&#39;m so glad to be back.  Steph is similar.... when she&#39;s ready to fix her problems we will be there for her. Granted she&#39;s been through a lot as well and I guess I was too sympathetic to that so much that I became an enabler.  Sure wish life had a complete instruction manual..hahaha<br /><br />Thanks and TTYL.  Have a good evening&#33;