<!--quoteo(post=335150:date=Nov 24 2008, 11&#58;12 AM:name=elfed)--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (elfed &#064; Nov 24 2008, 11&#58;12 AM) <a href="index.php?act=findpost&amp;pid=335150">&lt;strong&gt;QUOTE BELOW&lt;/strong&gt;</div><div class='quotemain'><!--quotec-->Happy Noon to all Crazies and your families. Warmer here today at 34 F. My wife&#39;s son (my stepson) is driving my wife mad with his so called lifestyle. He&#39;s 20. She wants him out of our home A.S.A.P. He&#39;s very stubborn and can be very, very verbally violent which is very upsetting to both my wife and myself. He&#39;s just lost his job in a computer store and is talking about going to college to learn something new. Trouble is it&#39;s just that-talk&#33; I&#39;m perturbed at my wife&#39;s lack of tolerance over him and fear a major confrontation between the two of them perhaps with violence involved. I can see both of their sides but lean towards my wife. Very worrying as my wife is insistant he must leave as she cannot stand the sight of him anymore. Oh Boy-I didn&#39;t expect my retirement to involve situations like this.<br />Regards,<br />James.<!--QuoteEnd--></div><!--QuoteEEnd--><br /><br /><br /><b>James you need to step in and give your Stepson a ultimatum, and also if you have him leave you will have to have him legally evicted since he&#39;s a part of the Household and family member, you may have other family over to cover any types of violence, but Id sit down with him and others in a calm and collective manner and just tell him whats the concern you have for the situation, if he doesnt respond in a understanding and calm manner, call Law enforcement and have them help out in the Situation, I handle these types of Family situations all the time, but you have to have a calm invironment and not conformational and others around too&#33;&#33; Good Luck, but you need to take care of this immediately before it could involve Violence&#33;&#33; Tell your Wife you Love her and are conernced for her safety and she should understand&#33;</b>