Keith, my deepest sympathies to you and your daughters.  I know exactly how your daughters feel,  I had lots of aunts and uncles on my dad&#39;s side and he passed away when I was 18.  A few years later, my mom remarried and it was like we had been wiped off the face of the earth.  Only one of my aunts and uncles stayed in touch with us.  11 years ago, when my mom died, my uncle from Missouri showed up at the funeral.  He told us he was sorry about losing touch and he would understand if we did not want him there, but he felt, as my father&#39;s brother, that he should be there for his children.  He has since passed away.  The one aunt and uncle who had stayed in touch all that time, and were always my favorite, I am afraid something has happened to.  They were quite elderly and in bad health and the last 2 Christmases, I have not heard from them (they live in OK).  I did an internet search to see if an obit or something would come up, but nothing.  I sent a letter to their address a month or so ago, asking if anyone knew anything to please contact me, thinking if one of their kids got it, they might let me know, but still nothing.   Onto brighter things - it is the start of a 3 day weekend.  HUbby is off on Monday.  Nothing fun planned for the weekend - he has a lunch and rally tomorrow with his ATV club and I plan to paint.  On Monday, we have to take my car to Boulder to the Cadillac dealer - it keeps telling me to have the &quot;tire pressure monitoring system&quot;  serviced and it says that my front passenger tire has 0 tire pressure in it, even thoguh when Greg checks it &quot;the old fashioned way&quot; it says it has exactly the correct pressure.  Today, I have to go get my hair colored - that darn pesky gray that Tonia was speaking of&#33;&#33;&#33;  Well, guess I had better get dressed and get ready for the appt. with my stylist, so I will talk to you guys later....