Thanks MaryLou.  I have been really dreading it but I know now is the time to do it.  Especially since they want to be buried where they were born which is about 100 miles away from where we live.  That makes it a lot harder to &quot;do&quot; whatever you have to do.  I know I &quot;have to&quot; I just don&#39;t want to.<br /><br />I know when Jerry&#39;s mother died, it was sudden and nobody had a clue what to do.  Everything  was just basically done for us by others and it turned out not being what Jerry feels it should had been.