Shari - thanks so much for checking in and we are all very relieved that your family and friends are safe while our heart aches for the victims of this disaster.  I know how you feel, when I stood on the steps of a school my DD taught in right across the river from Manhattan and watched the first Twin Tower dissolve in a cloud of smoke I vowed never again to take a single moment of my life for granted.  Cherish each moment and hold your loved ones close to you.<br />
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Robert - you have nothing to apologize for - we all have our daily lives to deal with and do it the best we can.  As for being a grandpa I think everyone here who is a grandparent will agree with me so here is my advice.   SPOIL THE BABY ROTTEN AND THEN SEND HIM/HER HOME.  hehe