Jenn, I think he is just tired of bad health.  He is 80 and has been on dialysis for years.  They want to do a heart cautherization, but he has had it done before, and says he will not go thru it again.  It&#39;s just upsetting to my FIL because it is his last surviving sibling.  We would go more out respect for Greg&#39;s dad than anything else.  Does anyone have big plans for Labor Day????