<!--quoteo(post=341934:date=Dec 31 2008, 07&#58;10 PM:name=cruisingcats)--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (cruisingcats &#064; Dec 31 2008, 07&#58;10 PM) <a href="index.php?act=findpost&amp;pid=341934">&lt;strong&gt;QUOTE BELOW&lt;/strong&gt;</div><div class='quotemain'><!--quotec-->Deb if I could plan this wedding without having to spend anything that would be great.  Not going to happen though.  Glad to know you have some experience with weddings because I have not idea.  <b>Our oldest went to the court house and didn&#39;t tell us till after.  Needless to say the marriage didn&#39;t last.</b><br /><br /><br />Got a call earlier saying our paychecks were no good and they were issuing new ones.  We had to be at the dist. office before 6 pm for pick up or wait till tomorrow or Friday.  Went down there and was told they had taken them to the bank since it was next door.  I guess the screw up had to do with some numbers missing.  All I care is that they are good.  Won&#39;t be writing any checks until I know for sure.<!--QuoteEnd--></div><!--QuoteEEnd--><br /><br />Good grief&#33; last paycheck of the year and they have you jumping through hoops&#33;  and on New Years Eve...what if you needed to go to the liquor store???  <img src="http://www.cruisecrazies.com/community/images/forum/tr-emoticons/wacko.gif" style="vertical-align:middle" emoid=":wacko:" border="0" alt="wacko.gif" /> LOL<br /><br />funny that you said your oldest went to the courthouse and the marriage didn&#39;t last...well ,not funny that the marriage didn&#39;t last of course...but my point is - hubby and I got married in a church, ours in going on 26 years.  His oldest brother got married at home - divorced. Got married at church - still married.<br />hubby&#39;s little brother got married at home - divorced. little brother married same women again at courthouse, divorced her again&#33; LOL<br />not to say church weddings are better, just worked that way in hubby&#39;s family.<br /><br />My sister has been married 3 times in a church...divorced 3 times too.<br />My brother - first time in a church - divorced...married 2nd time in wife&#39;s mother house, still married over 30 years