I don&#39;t know if I mentioned it but my oldest son and his fiance&#39; are having &quot;issues&quot;, in fact she isn&#39;t his fiance&#39; this week.  For the past 2 weeks, he starts IM&#39;ing me as soon as I log on the computer, wanting to talk about it.  Of course, I will always be there for him, but quite frankly, there really isn&#39;t anything else I can say.  I have seen a whole different side of her this past week, a terribly selfish side.  She is the one who wanted &quot;a break&quot;, but she keeps calling him telling him that she loves him and everything will work out.  On Monday, she called him and told him she was sad and needed a &quot;pick-me-up&quot;, so he went and picked her up and took her to a nail salon where he had scheduled her for a manicure and a pedicure.  He took her 3 yr. old daughter to buy some new shoes and kept her until mom was done.  On Wed. he sent her roses, yesterday, she asked him to make her a mixed CD of their favorite songs, which he did and promptly delivered to her house, and then today, 2 days before his birthday, she tells him that she still wants things to work out but she doesn&#39;t want to see or talk to him for a while.  He just called and said he is feeling like he is coming down with the flu and feels crappy enough because of what she dumped on him today and wanted to know if he could come and spend the night.  Guess you are never too old to need your parents.  I just went up and put clean sheets on his old bed and made sure his bathroom was clean.  As much as I love him, I wish he would come in and go to bed because I really do not want to sit here all night talking to him about her.  I have told him if she wants her space, to give it to her.  She has to be the one to decide if she wants to come back and bothering her is only going to push her away.  This is actually very strange for him, because he rarely opens up or talks about his feelings, so I certainly don&#39;t want to discourage him in doing so - I am just getting a bit weary of having the same conversation over and over.  Well, he just came in the door, so gotta&#39; go put on my mom face....