Sue - I agree with Deb...maybe you can talk with your brother and work something out and it is great you and your sister understand each other  <img src="http://www.cruisecrazies.com/community/images/forum/tr-emoticons/smile.gif" style="vertical-align:middle" emoid=":smile:" border="0" alt="smile.gif" /> <br /><br /><br />Deb and Joey - you are both correct about this cruise for me...the cost of it will be far less in the short term than the possible long term costs if we don&#39;t go...did I say that right??? <img src="http://www.cruisecrazies.com/community/images/forum/tr-emoticons/wacko.gif" style="vertical-align:middle" emoid=":wacko:" border="0" alt="wacko.gif" /> I am getting sooo confused LOL