Cheryl , its kinda weird you were talking about the other grandma thing...<br /><br />My GF called me today.. and said Tonia i got the weridest call from my mom... she said her mom called her crying saying i am so sorry i am somewhat of a poor grandma  , shesaid OHmom come on why ya say that... she was telling her that the grandaughter came over and was saying my grandma JO bought me this and took me here and i get to do this over at grandma JO house .. and my GF mother really go upset.. saying i can&#39;t give the granddaughter that ,, and the granddaughter was saying Oh I love my grandma JO ... ( my GF was luck enought to meet a great guy and his family is very well off and this is the first grabdchild ).. her mom was saying and i don&#39;t think she loves me .. my GF didn&#39;t really know what to say right at that moment.. other then OH mom please your the best grandma ya let her work in the garden she gets to help ya cook.. etc etc ...her mom calmed down but i reallly think she feels she can&#39;t compete with the other grandma .. and she was feeling bad because  she is not able to do those things the other grandma does.. My GF also said mom its not what ya give buy etc its what ya give them as far love and affectiion .. her mom said well thats all well and good but with kids sometimes its what you buy give etc .. to them thats love... .. so GF said she was going to have a little conversation with the daughter and try to explain why grandma Jean loves you as much as grandma JO does.. gezzzzzzz what a hard thing to do and OF all people she asks advise was me OK LIKE THE ONLY FRIEND who doesn&#39;t have children LOL LOL i didn&#39;t know what to say either ...glad ya told scotty to say those things to the other grandma.. think i will pass that on to GF but i am sure she told her that .... <br /><br />Joey sorry to hear about things being lousy but ya know we love ya hun... <br /><br />Marylou sorry and kinda happy about the TJ atleast they can treat it.. but ya know like with Roe and Marc the things that are suppose to help ya hurt ya too.. I wish there was a way i could take the pain you all have to duffer at times away.. thats the worst when people you care about hurt and theres not a dang thing i can do but to say my thoughts and prayers are with you.. sometimes i feel helpless when i say that...but really in my heart i do mean it so much..  <br /><br />to all hope you find some peace in the day .. <br /><br />take care  off to crush some almonds to make almond chicken tonight for dinner...i know its 1:32 in the morning LOL but this is my usual wake time LOL LOL i usually prep for dinner when i am off from work this time of the morning .. its quiet doggies are sleeping and the world is at peace atleast my little part of the world LOL LOL the rest fof the week lasagna rolls, carne asada tacos , cioppino.. <br /><br />Tonia