for me it would be the getting married LOL LOL .... i know alot have been together many many years and thats such a wonderful thing.. and i always love to hear that it does work....<br />
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My Bf and i have been together 10 years....and i know everyone will say you already have that so called already married. and common law .. but my answer to that is ... MY house is still mine and paid off free and clear, my money is still mine , i am not responsible for his taxes or credit card debt.. as he is not responsible for mine....i went thur a terrible divorce and so has he..... so as long as we are happy together... thats what is most important....I know you would think after so many years you would be over it.... but i still have nightmares of being left with 100 dollars to my name and losing my first house , my car everything i felt was forever...being homeless almost..and having a nerovous breakdown.at the same time losing my mother to cancer ....it does leave something in the back of your mine.. ummmmmm not going there again.....not that i don&#39;t love my BF and not that he doesn&#39;t love me... we just chose to not marry....... the best thing hes a great guy.. and who esle would say GO TRAVEL enjoy yourself.... and i will take care of the home front....i was lucky and found a second chance at happiness.. see god does find a way to help ya make it thur... and think without him i would have never made it .. he did pull me up and say .. HEY straighten up and lets make it thur the is light at the end of despair......<br />
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ok enough of the sob story of my divorce.....<br />
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LOL Tonia