Andrea, hang in there. It becomes really tough with the role reversal, like you are the parent now and they&#39;re the child.  It&#39;s hard I know, it requires a lot of work and patience.  Oh boy.... we&#39;re going to get there sometime as well  <img src="http://www.cruisecrazies.com/community/images/forum/tr-emoticons/blink.gif" style="vertical-align:middle" emoid=":blink:" border="0" alt="blink.gif" />