Jackie - Nothing to be sorry for - Heather &amp; Cait are no relation to us but they are certainly &quot;family&quot;    They came to me when they were only 3 months old and I had them every day til they were teens. When they were 5 they moved next door to us - then we saw them 7 days a week.       Even after that they still just happened to show up right around dinner time a lot of the time.   When I took them to grade school all the teachers thought I was their grandmother and it was always a big joke with them.