Hey all... hot hot... <br /><br />andrea i know what ya mean cool is worth it all...<br /><br />Jenn umm there is one difference between you and Joey...heheheheheh ( ok joey is cuter )<br /><br />Marylou glad all is well with TJ,,, hey did they find out why the nose bleeds??<br /><br />Rose glad the kitchen is looking up.. i know the excitment ya feel...<br /><br />Joey.. my friend .. and i do feel i am lucky to call all here my friends...there are always those who can&#39;t come to terms with their thoughts .. and what they feel is right...but you or anyone can not change their thoughts on any subject.... you know this as well as anyone...but what is important are the ones that are in support.. and truely wish you the best.. now i for one don&#39;t understand marriage .. may be thats why i am so afraid of it.. Gary and i have been together almost 12 years.. and if the word marriage came up not sure what i would do...when you find someone to love ..it is such a special thing...i see marriages here that hve been together for many many years .. and then i see people that marry say they love each other then a few years later they are the worst enemies.. why is this..... so my friend.. life is so short... if you are lucky enough to find  someone who truely loves you and is giving themselves to you with honesty, respect, and trust WHAT MORE can one person want..  and you were lucky enought to find the Davidman...(ok so he overpacks )...<br /><br />love the one your with.. and love the life you have with that person...never question your heart you only have one heart <br /><br />Tonia<br />