<!--quoteo(post=294077:date=Jun 16 2008, 08&#58;49 AM:name=deb1220)--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (deb1220 &#064; Jun 16 2008, 08&#58;49 AM) <a href="index.php?act=findpost&amp;pid=294077">&lt;strong&gt;QUOTE BELOW&lt;/strong&gt;</div><div class='quotemain'><!--quotec-->Happy Monday everyone - Good Morning <img src="http://www.cruisecrazies.com/community/images/forum/tr-emoticons/smile.gif" style="vertical-align:middle" emoid=":smile:" border="0" alt="smile.gif" /> <br /><br /><br /><br />My late brother&#39;s 70th b&#39;day would have been Wednesday. He passed away in January. We are having a private ceremony to spread his ashes on Wednesday. Since he passed away quite suddenly I was unable to speak at his funeral so I&#39;ve decided to  say a little something at this ceremony. My two other brothers have had some input but I&#39;m trying to organize something in just the right way. I don&#39;t know - maybe I&#39;ve over thinking it&#33; He and I weren&#39;t that close - 16 1/2 years age difference, but he was still my big brother&#33;<!--QuoteEnd--></div><!--QuoteEEnd--><br /><br />I am sorry to hear about your brother...just do what feels right to you at the memorial...sometimes people do try and over organize things and forget just what they were trying to do in the first place.<br /><br />I know it is never a good time for your air to go out but it really isn&#39;t today...I have a dr. appt later, a good friend of my parent&#39;s passed away over the weekend and I have to take them to the visitation tonite at the funeral home and tomorrow is the funeral and Daddy&#39;s cataract surgery...so I kinda would like my air...but it will all work out.