I know what you mean, Rose....my 25-year-old has been dating a lovely girl for about four years...fellow firefighter/paramedic student...he says she is the one he thinks he will marry.  She just moved in with him.  I really like her - she&#39;s pretty, smart, sweet, likes me, loves him....but they aren&#39;t in any rush and it&#39;s their life.  They tell me I&#39;ll always have a room with them, when I need it but Alex insists that he will NEVER change my diapers...go figure.