Martha - I&#39;m so sorry that you have all these decisions to make... Lee obviously needs to take care of his medical condition first (IMO) so that he is able to be of help to his parents. Don&#39;t you just hate when everything tumbles down at the same time - I guess that&#39;s life.  For me it was yesterday and the Dr. telling me I have to take the day off for this procedure... well one week before the end of tax season is NOT the time that the Manager should be removing herself from the busy office - ooooh, but he wants to do a series of these shots and wants them to have taken effect before our cruise, which will be 2 weeks later.<br /><br />Jenn - I can&#39;t believe that you are getting no joy from anyone in your Mom&#39;s situation... this is ridiculous.  (((BIG HUGS))) to you today.<br /><br />Andrea - so glad your niece was found unharmed.  Young kids don&#39;t realize the danger they put themselves in when they do these foolish actions, I guess that&#39;s 13 year olds.  But so glad she was found safe and sound.....  One of our kids when she was 13 skipped school with a buddy, caught a bus to ANOTHER town for the day.... we were frantically searching for her when she eventually came sauntering in at 7 pm that night.... no biggie for her&#33;&#33;  We could have happily strangled her for what she had put us all through, just off on a fun jaunt without anyone knowing where they were.  <img src="http://www.cruisecrazies.com/community/images/forum/tr-emoticons/biggrin.gif" style="vertical-align:middle" emoid=":biggrin:" border="0" alt="biggrin.gif" />