MaryLou, I guess the answer is yes and no.  We did not want to get married in Las Vegas, too tacky.  We had a convention coming up in the fall in the Florida Keys and decided we would do it there.  The Friday evening of the Convention was the best evening, because folks would start leaving the next day.  And, Friday was Roe&#39;s birthday.  So we planned it in the sense that we wanted to do it in Florida with all our favorite people from the Housing Industry, and the date was dictated by the Convention schedule. The wedding was a &quot;secret.&quot;  On Friday morning the daily schedule simply said &quot;Be in the Penthouse at 6 PM for a very special Builders Marketing Society event.&quot;