You ladies are all looking at Cheryl&#39;s solution from a woman&#39;s point of view.  From the man&#39;s perpective I just don&#39;t see wild sex as the answer.  I don&#39;t think men are that shallow.  In fact I told Lynda about it and dared her to try that on me&#33; <img src="http://www.cruisecrazies.com/community/images/forum/tr-emoticons/biggrin.gif" style="vertical-align:middle" emoid=":biggrin:" border="0" alt="biggrin.gif" /> Oh the sacrifices we men are willing to make&#33;  <img src="http://www.cruisecrazies.com/community/images/forum/tr-emoticons/ohmy.gif" style="vertical-align:middle" emoid=":ohmy:" border="0" alt="ohmy.gif" /> <br /><br />Have a good evening everyone&#33;