Just an update - Deb got the all clear to go back to work tomorrow.  Dr. really wanted her to wait til next Monday but when she explained what was going on at work, he signed her papers to go back.  I&#39;m not sure whether I&#39;m happy about that or not - it was kind of fun having her around for 6 weeks.  We went out to lunch, did some shopping and spent a lot of time together. I guess the Mommy in my came out and I enjoyed being needed again.