Is there a connection between pain and triumph?  This video is about two high school kids who have come from nothing and even worse - one is almost blind and the other lost his leg in a tragic train accident. Do they let any of that get in their way toward personal victory? Just the opposite.  Their pain has given them ammunition to electrify their lives.  What is it in the human spirit that can turn that switch from pain/victimization to pain/triumph?

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My experience with infertility was painful. It was painful on my body, it was painful on my mind and outlook.  It was as if you on are on a long train ride expecting to end up in one place and the realize in the middle you have no idea where you are going.  It's scary, demoralizing, maddening.  You look down at your body with disgust. For me, it was the miscarriages that were the most painful.  The look on the doctors face - and the fact that you will always silently commemorate the due dates.

But...now....triumph.  At least for me.  And help for my fellow female travelers on the train that will now have  destination.  Coming through that painful experience, I